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What is a Jewish Funeral? A General Overview of Traditional Burial Practices
Tahara – the traditional preparation
The traditional washing and dressing of the deceased with dignity. Performed by trained members of the Chevra Kadisha (Sacred Society). Men prepare men, while women prepare women in the accordance with Jewish traditional law. Embalming, cosmetizing or any other artificial preparation of the remains is not permitted by Jewish law.
Tachrichim – the burial shroud
A full set of traditional clothing, preferably made of linen, includes: hat, shirt, pants, jacket, belt and wrapping sheet. This symbolizes equality and purity.
Shmira – the watching of the remains
To show respect to the departed, never leaving the deceased alone until after burial. Psalms are traditionally recited by the Shomer (Watcher).
Aron – the burial casket
The wooden casket in keeping with the Biblical teaching “For dust art thou and to the dust thou shalt return” (Genesis 3:19)
Kvurah B’Karka – the burial in the ground
The actual burial must be in the ground, filling the grave completely until a mound is formed. To participate in filling the grave is a religious privilege and duty and is an expression of honor for the deceased. Cremation is unquestionably an abhorrent violation of Jewish law and cremains are not permitted burial in a Jewish Cemetery according to Halacha. Even the will of the deceased is ignored and the will of G-d takes precedence. Mausoleums and above ground burial are forbidden by tradition and Halachic law. The Biblical mandate for burial requires burial in the ground.
Some general rules to follow:
Seek education and learn about the beauty and meaning of traditional Jewish burial practices. Call a Rabbi first to assist you and to guide the funeral arrangements you make. Interment should not be unnecessarily delayed. Ostentation should be avoided. The dress and behavior of family and friends should reflect the dignity and the solemnity of the occasion. Visiting with and viewing of the remains are contrary to Jewish law. Flowers and music have no place at the Jewish funeral service.